A side chick already knows what your deal is, she already knows and accepts that there’s someone else that comes first.
The case is even deeper when the side chick is a married woman. The loyalty often displayed here goes to crazy levels.
It is common to find men making calls to side chicks on speaker phone, warning them. The wife listening is convinced there’s been a break up but the man knows the side chick understands and will play along because they believe they share a bond that nobody gets.
She can agree to even birth children, elope, do crazy stuff, even defend your wife against other would be chicks….the irony!
A married side chick is okay not being the main woman, she is also married and only needs you part time.
A side chick will fund you, get gifts for your wife and children and not be bothered.
They can be very difficult to ward off because the stealth mode that cheating men want is perfect for them.
It’s there today in many seemingly innocent relationships; Bosses, subordinates, contractors, family friends, account officers,
Realtors, work colleagues etc.
Usually in relationships that defy logic, it is the hidden and often forbidden nature of it that gives it that extra thrill. It’s why you can see a man with a side chick and wonder why, because she may not even be his traditional spec. This is what makes it even more difficult to break because the relationship isn’t based on things you even understand.
Many homes are strained today because these relationships have shadowed the marriages for years and never gone away.
It gets you wondering why a person, especially where married, would agree to be this for another man she cannot fully have.
The answer is in the amount of emotional damage many have gone through in life and in their own actual marriages which have really destroyed any sense of worth left so whatever little bit they get in the relationship feels too good to be true and they are contended with it, would even be humiliated for it.
All the above fitting right into the infidelity agenda, until eventually, they develop emotions too strong, too demanding….and the battle begins with another wife.
