A lot of marriages today are filled with wives who are unhappy because the connection to their husbands have been lost. Women who have tried their best but have gotten tired from being the only ones trying but then many wives do not even know what the actual issue is which begs the question; how can you solve a problem you don’t even understand?
Many husbands want to discuss critical issues but society has painted the discussion of said issues as insensitive, forgetting to factor in how it affects the emotions and connections he has for the wife.
Typical examples include:
– Stubbornness of the wife
– Physique and general body outlook
– Hygiene
– Quality of sxx
A man has emotions which are physical and emotional. Take the body changes for example, many women instantly get defensive when husbands attempt to speak about how the changes affect their own psyche and attraction. Yet, if you have a wife who is going to play the emotional card of the challenges of pregnancy instead of listening to understand what’s going on and how you can work together, how will this not affect the marriage?
Physical attraction is key and it matters. While there are other things that also matter, you cannot sweep this away.
Take also a wife who gets defensive every time the husband is trying to correct her, playing whataboutism instead of listening, it’s only basic for the husband to get tired at some point.
Some of these topics are already difficult to bring up but if you have a wife who is not interested in whatever you feel, in the end, the marriage will suffer.
This is the unspoken truth in our society that’s straining and breaking many homes today. It is hoped that a change in this area can help.
Begin by asking yourself;
Am I a wife whose husband can have difficult conversations without getting defensive, looking for excuses or trying to make it into a fight?
Then take it from there.
