When last did you take a walk with your spouse?
No, not a trip to the supermarket or a family function — just a simple, unplanned stroll hand in hand.
If you’re a man, your mind might already be searching for a defense. If you’re a woman, you’re probably wondering what he’s done wrong this time. But pause for a moment. Think deeply. When last did you take a walk with your legally married spouse — just the two of you?
If you can’t remember, what’s your excuse?
“Too public,” right? Fine, let’s give you that. What about inside your own home — do you fare better there?
When last did you take a shower together?
Or wait, have you ever had a shower together?
Surely, if you’ve made love, there must have been moments where you could’ve cleaned up together. But maybe that’s the problem — when last did you even make love? Last year? Longer?
If this hits home, perhaps it’s time to admit that things can be so much better than they currently are.
You see, sharing a walk, a shower, or even a meal doesn’t make you a perfect couple. But these small, shared moments are the glue that holds two hearts together. They’re the difference between being married and simply coexisting as flatmates under the same roof.
You are a couple — couples connect. They laugh, touch, talk, and share experiences. They fuse in mind, body, and soul.
This isn’t a post to criticize you; it’s one to encourage you.
To remind you that it’s never too late to start doing the little things that make love feel alive again.
So grab her in the kitchen — yes, your wife. You paid her bride price, your family prostrated, and vows were exchanged. All that effort wasn’t just for you two to turn into polite roommates, pretending incompatibility killed the spark.
Look around — no couple is perfectly compatible. The secret is in the commitment to keep trying.
You can have better — in fact, you deserve better.
Next time you’re alone in a corner, be spontaneous. Don’t overthink it. Just reconnect.
You’re not “beyond that.” You didn’t lose it overnight, and you won’t regain it overnight either. But it only takes one stepto start walking back toward each other, no matter how far apart you’ve drifted.
Surely, it’s worth the try — because you both deserve that kind of love again.
❤️ Conclusion:
Marriage isn’t about perfection; it’s about participation. The little things — a walk, a touch, a shared moment — are what keep love alive. It’s never too late to fall in love again with the person you vowed to walk life’s road with.
