Many homes lack an atmosphere of love because of husbands who don’t know part of their responsibility is to teach and show their wives to love them.
“She doesn’t get it” – Yes, because you also didn’t invest in her, you didn’t show her. Even when you do, do it with love, calm, kindness and patience, she’d get better for you.
You are too firm, too strict, too difficult to share a conversation, joke or laugh with. How can there be a platform for more?
Your wife is your lover and if you spend enough time showing her how to love you, you may not need all the distractions over the phone or time spent outside with others who may not benefit your marriage and home.
If she doesn’t get what topics interest you, show her and help her learn.
She may not be as interested in your sports or documentaries or PlayStation but she’s interested in you so carry her along and help her fit in. Engage her within your interests and learn hers too, you’d find in her, a spouse and friend better than any other.
Jokes don’t equate to disrespect, you are a husband not a tyrant. Calm down and share a smile, you earn blessings for it anyway.
The connection you build here will also benefit intimacy as she’d feel it easier to express and engage you, matching whatever level you desire. Good madam outside, wild for you inside – win win.
Marriage comes with a lot, this one is a benefit that costs you nothing.
Smile, talk to her, talk with her, play with her, engage her, be naughty together, you are married and your marriage can be bliss.
