Extramarital affairs happen and anyone can make the mistake of getting involved.
It won’t always start strong but will gather momentum and that momentum is helped on by the secrecy involved.
From when it starts out as little chats to when it becomes full blown sxxual and emotional affairs, every stage something is done that ensures you both are more entangled in the secrecy of it.
Hidden chats, calls in the car and toilet, passwords, hidden applications, deleted messages, hidden locations, hidden nudes shared and so much more; it all is enshrouded in secrecy.
The stronger the secrecy of it, the more difficult it is to break.
It’s easy to look and judge others but this can happen to anyone. It’s the more reason to understand how it works.
Extramarital emotions can be broken but it is difficult and begins with demystifying that which you believe is shared in secrecy.
Speak to someone, get professional help with it because eventually it all blows up in scandals. Hopefully, yours won’t get to that stage.
