Don’t be a tyrant whose wife cannot speak, express or contribute ideas. The position of ‘wife’ goes way beyond child birthing and servicing the home….but then, this definition will vary from place to place.
A wife, your wife, is your soulmate, a companion there to support your growth. It is a position of intellect too reflecting your choice.
Allow her be all she can in the home, as an individual and as a wife; a member of the home with rights and authority too.
You’d go into many homes and you can tell that the wives are terrified even when they try to hide it.
Unfortunately, a lot of husbands don’t even realise they could be a lot better than they are if they empowered their wives. Her gender and position do not define her resourcefulness, intelligence, enlightenment, dedication, loyalty…all of which you are throwing away.
Don’t shout or shut her down, don’t dismiss her like she means nothing because brother, she means everything…..she’s your wife!
But then again, I guess the meaning of that varies from place to place.
