Divorce was meant to end a messy marriage. Perhaps an escape from a husband always engaging in infidelity or even seeking to bring in another.
This was supposed to be the phase that would at least guarantee you peace.
You disliked so much the idea of ladies who would not let married men be, it was even more challenging when it happened in your marriage. Such was the level of hurt that you left. Who would have ever thought that you would become that which you spent the whole of your life hating and speaking against?
You are lonely and as much as you are glad you left your cheating husband, it has proven difficult to get another that would be loyal and true to you. It’s either they want sxx, money, both or more.
It hurts even more when the ones who appear to be able to act mature are already married and just like that, the idea doesn’t seem as bad as it once appeared.
Nobody understands your hurt, you say to yourself, this man loves you (or at least appears so) but this man is married and your affair with him is causing trouble in his home.
You have become that woman you promised yourself never to be.
The real heartbreak is not just this but going through all that for a man who then happens to be just like others before him who showed interest in you but ended up being just there to waste your time or take advantage of you.
Welcome to the reality of how many side chicks today are the divorced and single mothers. Not all……but this has gradually become the norm.
Look around you and ask how many wives are complaining today about the existence of a divorced woman, single woman or even a married one on the side.
Will this continue to be you?
Give it a deep thought and if you are already in it, seek help with it.
It’s harsh but you are better than this, you are strong enough to do things right.
