Really, while you are away, having an affair and being unavailable, who is attending to the emotional and sexual needs of your wife?
It is a very question for many because the answer is an idea we would never want to accept.
Just like men, and maybe even more than men, women are emotional beings needing attention, care and quality time.
It may begin with just social media time alone, a chat that seems harmless with a colleague, a simple call to check up on an old acquaintance but a lonely person has needs and they often show.
It doesn’t take much for her to become addicted to the attention because it feels good. Add the damage of discovering a husband who’s spending all of that time with other women and she becomes vulnerable.
Welcome to how many women got into extramarital affairs.
Unfortunately, by the time many return home, damage has already been done and the wives have forgotten how to be attracted to them.
Where not addressed, this could take down the marriage.
It isn’t always about the man having affairs though, sometimes it is work, money chasing, politics or family and friends that take his time, leaving the woman vulnerable.
While this is an issue that can be solved getting professional help, it is one you are better off preventing.
So, again, I ask. While you are away, having an affair or being unavailable, who is attending to the emotional and sexual needs of your wife?
