In the whirlwind of everyday life, it’s easy to forget the little things that once made your relationship feel magical. But pause for a moment and ask yourself:
When was the last time you truly smiled at her?
Not a quick grin or a polite nod, but a smile that came straight from your heart — the kind that says, “I see you. I love you.”
When did you last give her a compliment that had no agenda?
Not one that came just before a favor or out of obligation, but something genuine. Something like, “You’re amazing,”simply because she is.
When did you last speak to her like the woman who owns your heart?
Not just chatting about errands or the kids, but sitting close, looking into her eyes, and speaking soft, sweet words. The kind of words that make her feel seen, desired, and cherished.
When was the last time you saw her as the queen she once was to you?
Remember how she chose you? Out of everyone, she gave her love, her time, and her heart to you. When did you last see her through those eyes again?
When was the last time you played with her?
Tickled her, carried her, threw a pillow at her, gave her a piggyback ride, or just acted silly together? When did laughter last echo in your shared space?
When did you last eat together and act like kids?
Steal a piece of meat off her plate, feed her a slice of plantain, playfully argue over the last sip of juice — those goofy, simple moments that build intimacy.
When did you last miss her?
Not her presence, but what you used to share — the connection, the depth, the fun, the fire.
When did she last matter more than your phone?
More than the endless scrolling, the notifications, the people behind those apps?
When did it last bother you that she felt sad?
That she stopped smiling like before, that she pulls away a little more each day?
When did it start not mattering that these things no longer matter?
Relationships don’t fall apart overnight. They drift quietly, day by day, when we stop paying attention to what made them special.
So maybe it’s time to look at her again — really look.
Speak. Smile. Touch. Laugh.
Love her, not just in words, but in the little things.
Because sometimes, love isn’t about grand gestures.
It’s about remembering that she still matters — and showing it, before she forgets how much she once did.
