Many husbands don’t see infidelity as a big deal. Keeping women on the side outside their marriages is just a sport, a “guy thing”.
But infidelity is a big deal to wives as women tend to commit more emotions to partners. So, while you have a husband thinking he’s just having fun, the wife is breaking down and struggling. In the end, the marriage suffers.
It will feel like just ‘cruise’ and begins like a joke; an exciting joke which you convince yourself is harmless.
“Come on, it’s not like you don’t love your wife, this is just fun and all men do it. Your wife won’t know”
And just like that a meeting leads to chats which leads to physical meetings that end up as sexual affairs.
Confidence is built and audacity grows so from just the one time, it becomes multiple times and from the one person, it becomes several. All this time, telling yourself you are keeping it real at home, after all your wife doesn’t know.
Confidence will become arrogance and even you will become careless with your process making it easier for your spouse to know. Small fights will begin at home which will lead to bigger ones affecting communication, connection, affection and sex; draining your marriage without you realising it. How would you? Someone else is replacing your spouse!
You’d be lost in the temporary excitement and thrill heightened by the hush nature of what you are doing, you won’t realise just how much you are damaging the home.
In the end, you wake up when the marriage suffers and your spouse either breaks down or breaks free and leaves. Unfortunately, the marriage may be too broken to fix or your spouse may just have had enough.
The thoughts would flood back at what you had and how you messed it up, and all for what? Affairs where you got nothing!
That affair is damaging your home, don’t wait until it’s too late. Get help now. Don’t destroy your good marriage.
