What makes you a worthy wife?
Ask around and you’d find people listing house chores and nothing more. A housekeeper can provide that.
So, beyond that, what actually makes you a worthy wife? What do you bring to the table?
This is where people begin to get defensive talking about being a woman. Being a woman doesn’t mean you make a worthy wife. That comes from the values presented, your profile, your character and responsibility.
Top of that list is companionship. How are you a wife when your husband cannot even find in you, a person to share ideas without regretting the lack of awareness displayed or the lack of capacity? How are you a worthy wife when he cannot share his fears and challenges with you without you making it about yourself or belittling him?
How are you a wife worthy when you don’t know or care about his interests? Only to turn around and complain?
How are you a wife worthy when you lack decorum, respect and the basic ability or even communicate effectively?
If you are only a debit source to him without bringing anything or much back, you should pay attention to yourself first.
But then, this is addressing women so the natural urge in you is to get defensive or even argue.
How will you ever get better then?
