As a wife, if you are sXx starved, you are on your own as every door is shut.
Now, here’s the thing, to the society, you cannot have another partner, you cannot masturbate, you cannot play with sxx toys, you cannot watch porn, yet, you cannot get what you want from your assigned partner. Worse, you dare not speak about it.
Welcome to marriage as we currently run it.
The saddest part is that many of those who have summoned the courage to speak up have been accused of doing what they tried to avoid doing by speaking up.
“If you are not getting enough, it is your fault, it is probably because you have done so much before marriage or you are currently doing such.”
Close your eyes for a second and hear your partner accuse you of that, for asking that you want more or you want better. Now tell me how to react rationally to that.
Picture a married woman using a vibrator, what comes to your mind, good wife or bad wife?
Picture a married woman touching herself, what comes to mind, good or bad wife?
You see how we have been conditioned to see it, right? Yet, we want to hold this in our minds without putting in place, mindsets that make it compulsory to satisfy, sxxually, the wives at home.
No, this is not about the money you make or give her. It is not about the amount of time you spend working to provide for her. This is not about the wife of she is and it is no respecter of your status. Governor, president, counselor, banker, cleric, motivational speaker, it doesn’t matter. It can happen to anybody.
While some women will tell you how they are strong and can go on for months and years without it, and while this is true in many cases, you have got to ask yourself if that is the sort of union you want to have. Beyond that, you need to realise, that even the “strong women” are ticking time bombs. It is only a matter of time before the timer runs down and the sxxual pressure built, finds its way out, ONE WAY OR THE OTHER.
