The journey back into the hands of your spouse after finding solace in the arms of another is a very challenging one.
It is significantly more difficult if the arms, as it often happens, treated you better than those at home, better than you had been conditioned to take.
Ears that listen, with complete attention and total validation of who you are, your ideas and knowledge of the things your mind, body and soul desires…. that’s tough to discard for a spouse who would ignore and treat one poor.
More times than not, you’d know support is not coming from people around so you’d silently fall deeper into the embrace warm.
It’s easy to talk the talk and point fingers but until you have found solace with someone you least imagined, you may not understand what it’s like for those who have.
So, encourage them? No. This is still not good and believe me, they know it. However, this is an issue, difficult but not impossible to fix.
It will vary from place to place but depending on how it is with you, you can still heal your home. You can still break free of your distraction.
The tough question is do you really want to make things better and leave who you currently are with?
Reach out, let’s give it the proper approach together.
