You. Yes, you.
You take care of your spouse. You take care of your children. You take care of everyone around you — and that’s beautiful. But let me ask you something… who takes care of you?
What’s that? You don’t think you deserve care too?
When did you stop believing that your well-being matters just as much as everyone else’s?
What happened to your dreams — the ones you whispered to yourself years ago when you believed you could be anything?
Did marriage, parenting, or life’s endless responsibilities erase the space and time you once had to dream?
What happened to the person you promised yourself you would grow into?
What about the person you can still become?
Somewhere along the line, in between caring, giving, fixing, and nurturing, you lost a piece of you.
You’ve forgotten your essence — that spark that made you you.
When last did you take care of yourself?
When last did you buy something small, even as ordinary as new underwear, just because you deserve it?
When last did you do something that wasn’t for the family, or the job, or the home — but for your growth, your peace, your joy?
Your excuse might be marriage. But no, marriage didn’t do this to you.
You did.
You gave too much of yourself without refilling your own cup. You stopped prioritizing the person who makes everything else function — you.
But here’s the good news: because you did this, you also have the power to undo it.
You can choose today to start showing up for yourself again — not in guilt, but in grace.
So, what are you waiting for?
Why not you?
Why not now?
Conclusion:
Self-care isn’t selfish — it’s sacred. You can’t pour from an empty cup, and the world needs the healthiest, happiest version of you. It’s time to care for yourself the same way you care for everyone else.
