Because many women are raised to believe marriage is their ultimate purpose, we unconsciously tell them to achieve it by any means necessary.
What this means is that no matter what you achieve, if you are not married, society still looks at you as if you haven’t done much.
The resulting pressure leads many into desperate moves including settling for way less than they deserve.
A woman should not be at a disadvantage because of the success that comes with her efforts either in career, finance or any other area.
I get many frustrated from even parents who just want them to settle for anyone available.
Yes, marriage is beautiful when done right but it is essential for it to also be with someone you connect with and desire.
Marriage is good when it happens right and that’s when both parties are happy. If she has to be with just any man for family or societal validation then that’s just wrong.
We should raise men to higher standards not expect women to drop theirs for marriage. Humility should not be termed as tolerating men with poor standards just to be called married.
